Hello Ted,
Correct, when I start the inclusion I see the specific instructions for the device. For most the times I only get the time out screen after some time. Occasionally I do see the adding device screen, however it always results in a time out as well. The inclusion instructions says the led flashes three times, while my device only flash twice.
I do have other Zigbee devices (including other Aqara devices) and they work without any issue. For your reference I attached a screen capture of my Zigbee network structure. I don’t see any red triangle or spinning circles.
If it helps I can send you a vibration device and you can try it in your setup.
Regards,
Marco
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