Hi Erik,
welcome to the Homey Community!
There are two options to control a Zigbee bulb with a Zigbee remote:
- You have to pair both devices with the Homey Bridge and create flows.
- Controlling a Zigbee device with a Zigbee remote directly *¹
*¹ As mentioned in the support article:
Not all devices support this direct connection and the devices must be connected to Homey before trying to connect them to each other.