Question about smart switches

Hello, i have homey pro. I really need to do switches in my house - wired switches … i have a lot of groups in ,staircase´´ - one light and 2-3 switches to light it up or turn off… i bought this one, becouse it has everything i need / by the description/ but after trying to use them they are arguing between each other, one turn off the second and likewise … is there any way how to do it ? - i want switch which is not white /id love black or grey/ what can do that function 1 light 2-3switches, small diode for seeing in night … and compatibile with homey pro ofcourse. I´ll apriciate every advice or help, at this time i am really desperate. thanks

I have physical three way switches for one set of lights. Each switch toggles the light. So changing any switch turns the lights on if they are off, and turns them off if they are on. Is that similar to your situation?

Rather than get into the complexity of changing the wiring, I used a Switchbot bot attached to one of the switches. That allows me to turn the lights on and off via Homey.

If we ever use one of the other switches we need to reverse that action or the Homey automations will be wrong way around. We could use covers on those switches to prevent us doing that by mistake, but the Homey automations we have make that unlikely.

Andy